Re: Judging your friend's partner

When you get insomnia, your mental going to be a bit retarded. And everything you did, said and whatever sometimes get..confuse. Same goes to my previous post. Bila baca balik rasa..eww, what the hell im talking about. Sungguh tak faham, seriously! haha.

Let me rehearse it back.

• When one of your friend having a new relationship with the special person for him/her, what you need to do is feel happy for your friend happiness. 

• Then next day, you find out that your friend left you for this one person that he/her just met and you felt a bit strange. You may say that you're not but think carefully. Did you or did you not?

• Lepas tu, you saw some changes. Dulu dia seorang penjimat and now dia spend almost everything for the loved one, dulu dia seorang yang selalu hang out dengan kawan and now nak jumpa batang hidung pun sangat susah, dulu dia..dan sekarang dia.. You started to get worried. Thank you. It shows that you are taking care of your friend.

• Your curiosity nak tahu every single things makin menjadi-jadi. So, dalam senyap-senyap konon tak nak tahu pasal tepi kain orang tapi sedikit sebanyak memerhati juga keadaan sekeliling. Next thing you realize you have negative thoughts.

• There you have it a story of king/queen control. Pretty little phenomenon happen here isn't it?

Don't pointing before asking.

• Sometimes memang wujudnya king/queen control kat dalam dunia ni. Tapi bukan semua. Cinta itu kan buta. Sebab kasih, they tend to make every possible steps that will make you as a friend feel..what a BIG CHANGES.

• A man, when he felt he found the right person for his life he would do anything, treat her like Queen. This is the normal way for him to express his love is pure. I bet, you will not going to say a word if the guy take her with the ring but you will do and feel different when she is just GF's status. Why he's not yet proposing her to the alley? Hey, that is your friend problem not her's. Don't put the blame towards others. Siasat dulu.

• A lady, when she felt she found the one, she will do anything for her love. As we all know, female's love are very strong and emotional. Sebab tu la sampai ada kes sanggup buat apa saja demi kasih yang terlarang. Im not blaming. That's normal when to people in love, and owh well kita semua ada nafsu. But this is not the point here.

My point is, bila kita jumpa apa yang kita cari, kita akan sanggup berlapar demi menjaga barang kita. Sebab kita tahu kita akan susah nak mencari balik apa yang kita ada. There's people yang suka makan budi and others are independent and sangat tak suka makan budi. So which is your friend's partner? Macam mana nak tahu before judging?

The answer is you can't. If you just a friend for only one sided, you will not get the answer correctly. You're eyes may said 'A' but the truth speaks 'B'. You never know.

• Your friend were so in love sampai sanggup berkorban apa sahaja. Dia sanggup menyusahkan diri sendiri untuk menyenangkan dan melihat si dia bahagia. But do you really know yang si dia tu bahagia atau mengambil kesempatan? Kadang-kadang pasangan ni bergaduh sebab kes dia rasa bersalah sangat sebab asyik bagi pinjam latest gadget dekat si dia yang dicintai. Walhal si dia tak nak pun tapi dia insist. Dah nak buat macam mana kan, jaga hati punya pasal ambil lah jugak. Comelkan? But do you know the real story if only that you see is your friend tak sempat nak godek dah kekasih dia ambil and you feel annoyed sebab nampak cam dia showed off. Mana tahu sebenarnya kawan awak tuh suh chat guna menda alah tu ke. Yang you nampak SHOWING OFF..pfftt!!

That is only the part of the story. Tapi fahamlah situasi tu macam mana kan. So, people outside there, don't judge the book by the looks. Wokeyh, what you have see is they get into fight a lot. Punca sebenar?? If you just hear one part of the story, you can't be the publisher. Simple statement but it strictly stated. Kita semua dah besar. So, i'll end the story here for now. See you in the next post.