Orang kata...

Salam..entry nie post lepas tengok gambar member-member aku kat dalam facebook. Betul ke ada orang cakap nak cari pasangan masa kita dah besar. Paling awal pun masa kita form 4. Orang tu cakap, kalau cari pasangan masa tengah remaja tu cam form 2,3 masa tu jangan nak percaya sangat sebab masa tu cinta monyet je.. Tapi bila kita besar sikit kita baru paham erti sebenar cinta. So, jadi hubungan tu boleh la kekal lama sebab masing-masing dah besar kan. Tapi betul ke apa orang cakap tu??

Ikot kajian aku sendiri la kan..sape yang kapel dari kecik macam form 1 pun dilihat hubungan boleh kekal lama jugak. Maybe sebab masing-masing masih kecik mentah dan xtahu apa2. Tapi lain pulak jadinya bila kita kapel masa form 2,3. Sebab waktu tuh orang kata darah panas. Perasaan ingin mencuba tu tinggi. Masa tu jugak la orang terdedah dengan rokok, dadah daan sebagainya. Tapi tu zaman aku. Zaman sekarang budak form 1 pun dah pandai nak isap rokok. Ntah2 masa zaman millenium tuh budak form 1 pun dah pandai ambil dadah. Manalah tahu kan. Harap dijauhkan.

Lepas tu aku perhatikan pulak sapa2 yang kapel masa form 4,5. Aku tengok kebanyakkan mereka kekal lagi sampai sekarang. Harap mereka sampailah ke akhir hayat. Penat taw bila bercinta sakan last2 xjadi. Wang duit, masa segala benda la. Tapi jangan nak salahkan takdir. Daripada perhubungan yang lepas, kita pasti dapat belajar sesuatu. Cuba pikir balik. Walau sepahit mana pun kenangan itu, ada jugak yang pelajaran dari situ. Jadi kita xakan ulang balik kesilapan. Kan3..??

Walau pun macam tu, aku tengok pasangan yang sebaya yang belum ada apa-apa pengalaman yang kebanyakan akan kekal lama. Lain pulak dengan pasangan yang berbeza umur. Tengok setakat ni masih bahagia lagi. Bagusla kalau macam tu. Owh..yang nie cakap balik pasal budak form 4,5 punya hubungan taw.

Hubungan dekat U pulak semakin rancak. Yelah, masing2 da ada perasaan sendiri. Dah tahu apa yang perlu dalam kehidupan. Mana yang sedang berbahagia tu harap kekal lah. Jangan gaduh2 sampai melarat. Tapi seronok sesuatu perhubungan dekat U mungkin atau tak mungkin boleh seindah dekat U. Yelah, dekat U jarak tak jadi penghalang. Walau sesibuk mana korang belajar, tetap ada masa nak berseronok n nak manja2. Tapi bila dah masuk kerja, korang jumpa lagi macam2 orang. Berduit pulak tu. Kena pulak korang memang kerja yang tension2. Macam mana korang nak handle.

Tapi benda2 macam tu xakan jadi masalah kalau korang atasi. Masa tulah yang akan jadi kemuncak perhubungan korang. Orang kata kalau jodoh xkemana. Macam mana nak kata ada jodoh kalau hati dah ada kat orang lain. kan3??

So..kesimpulannya, perhubungan ketika umor matang kurang sedikit peratusnya untuk rasa kecewa putus cinta. Perhubungan yang stabil, matang akan menjadikan sesuatu perhubungan itu menjadi lebih lancar. Nak buat hantaran kahwin pun xada masalah. Cakap aje berapa..hee~

let's get psycho!!

1- u mad at someone
don't tell people u were angry..but tell people u were happy to loved them even more!!
(fact : human are full of emotions. they know they made u really mad but then u act opposite way and that scares them the most. THEY'VE BEEN PSYCHO!!)

2- they making u feel as if u not existed
don't make a face and don't feel distracted..just proceed your life as usual!!
(fact : they pretend as if they don't care just to see your reaction but then u act different ways. This will make them uncomfortable. THEY'VE BEEN PSYCHO!!)



3- they humiliate u in front other people
don't react that u shamed of what they do..but react it with a big smile n responds with a nice way of greetings if u have any chance!!
(fact : usually this kind of people just wanna show how powerful they are by making others feel unpleasant but then they way u react shows to them how not powerful they are as the thought. THEY'VE BEEN PSYCHO!!)

4- they release the anger to u even you didn't know anything
don't get mental to the comments they gave but just accept it with open minded. it may hurts u and u will get emotional but sometimes somehow u need understand others.
(fact : human is just a human. sometimes they get mentally interrupted but sometimes they just do fine. even though u not in real good condition accepting everything they said lead them to appreciate for your concerned. THEY'VE BEEN PSYCHO!!)

5- they always talked how good they were but it's all nonsense
don't show how annoyed u were but just keep telling them they actually that good.
(fact : they just want to get attention from others and they love when people around understand what they want. They get touched but when u keep telling how true each of the words they said, they get annoyed by the words they said as they know it's a total lie. THEY'VE BEEN PSYCHO!!)

p/s : it's really good to be true!!

man

there's a thing i discovered about the people named man.
this is about their love story of how they choose the soulmate of his.

1)whenever a girl show some interest of him such taking care of his dressup,his performance his whatever on him or his behaviour even it doesnt mean anything, well IT DOES MEAN A THING for him.

2)whenever a girl show her sweetness of her laughter and make a real good conversation between him, it sure does turn him on a little bit.

3)whenever a girl asking for help more to asking for the sympathy, they will easily taking care of her beyond his awareness.

4)whenever a girl try to understand or be a good listener of him, he definitely have this tiny thought making the girl his..someday..

5)whenever a girl give a positive answer(s) to all the question he gave, u are definitely have a bright future to become his most precious.
-question refers to the hearts matter



so..as the conclusion, if u are trying making friends with him just as friend friend, be clear to everything u said n u do.

male : bleyh x sy nk kawan dgn awk??(he interested in u a lil bit)
female : kwn je??bleyh..no hal la..(u gv him a green light)
male : nape awk xkapel lg??(trying to get into seyes subject)
female : sbb sy x besedia lg.(u did again give him a green light *sigh)
(u making him waiting for u)

male : beleyh x sy nk kawan dgn awk??
female : xperlu asenyer. xpenting pn.(finally u gv him right answer-harsh but true)
male : nape awk xkapel lg?
female : sbb sy mmg xsuke.

dun worry giving them a pretty harsh answer rather than he adores u and the next day become his enemy
as u not choosing him.
be urself dun try be others. the person named man will always respect u named female that always said
the truth that u dont give a false hope. it may sound a little harsh in the way u responsed but that is the way.

gudluck!!

jangan berkata jika tak pasti

what u will think for someone who seems willing to do anything for u, do anything u asked, yet it just a halfway path. errkk?? i mean he said he will do it..but only half way. ergh!!!!!im real mad here!! not once but twice so far i felt it this way. hey hey..it may sound little, but wat happen when he would do as much as he wants?? and what if the thing is a real big thing??gosh!!ive been giving chances to this one man before and there's the mistake happen. HATE IT!! there's no way im giving u chances that make my heart sank once more again(even for another man)..thank gudness we dun have anything to tie us up. At least i can find a new other guy. YEAY!!!

but how can i forget u in just a minute second and telling u im not 'things' u could do the same thing again and again..


[p/s : dun let us the female on the man's feet]

full name

There's certain thing we need to use our own name(full) such as email and even a a social networking mostly for a business purpose. That is really forbidden for me when i still a kid. I don't like people get to noe me as much as they know my real name. Kind say, im pretty secretive. fuhh!!haha.. But im getting older, and now im studying at U, it keeps me thinking how nice it would be when someone corporate have ur name. wow!! It seems u were some kind of hot stuff!! What r ur opinion?? Would u like to sharing some??

no couple, juz married..will ya??

saye makin hari makin suke pada kamu..but i dont want to have any seyes relationship..im targeting no couple at the mean time juz be married. but hey, trying to have the married status at the 23 and having a perfect car with a perfect at least an apartment by myself and he juz grad and me juz have my own work for A YEAR and were planning of having a grand ceremony..gosh!!i really need money. Im DESPERATE!!



anyway, i am confusing and had a very long thoughts too. I think i really making mess in ur pureness heart and still im not really sure if u are the one even i really well known ur behavior really drives me crazy!DAMN! u really stole my heart, dude. Please take care that well. huh!i know u will. I just afraid of me, myself. it's really hard just to keep still with this one person. Beside, my status still single..hee~

Actually, the real probs here i really afraid if i let u down.
..What if i really like u this time but as the time passing by, i like somebody else.
..or wat if im the one hoping for more and u were not?
i really afraid with this kind of things. owh, god..please if he is the one, take me to him. If not, get him out of my blood.